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Love

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Love

Love is universal.

It isn't a he or she.

Be liberal with it.

You can't say you "love" if your terms are only self-sufficient.

If you love them, their happiness should matter.

If they love you, your happiness should matter.

Love isn't so hard to find

It is one of the most priceless gifts to humanity

It is free

When you meet or search in space or union

Trying to identify the meaning of love

Upon definition, then that isn't love

Love is invincible

Love is free

Feel it.

Love is one of the answers to world peace.

Knowing our true purpose is the second.

There's nothing so magical like an awoken person in love.

Love transforms; voluntarily and involuntarily

Love is real. Scripted love isn't.


Love hurts sometimes but only for a valuable lesson.

Love is seeing everyone as equal

Love is treating everyone as equal

Love is not conversion

Love is not adultery

There's nothing like forbidden love

Love is never a bad thing

Pain doesn't amount to love

Love, sometimes amounts to pain

Love is not addictive

Love is sanity

It isn't breathless

It is life giving

Love is a spineless baby in my arms

Love is gratitude for life

Love is 50% of profit to the missionaries, the orphans

The hungry without media evidence or credit

Love is reminding them that there is actually love

Love embraced is love extended.



Mental Abstraction:

Love is indeed a fairytale - in one chapter though, as it may be chaotic in the next chapter.

My sister helped enlighten me on how we never love people because of a certain thing but despite things we may not ordinarily tolerate or want.

Love is pain o. not on the grand scheme of things but the journey isn't exactly rosy.

Love is empathy and that is pretty hard. It is not easy to treat a person as I would with myself, especially when there is that consciousness of not receiving it back in same measure or at all.

Love is patience - this is a populous quote and an easy way to give way for toxicity. Still, in love, endurance, tolerance and patience without losing your mind or feeling less of yourself.

Love is openness and the hard conversations - eish! Upon realizing this, I cried out to the heavens that I wanted to remain in a state of nirvana. Do you know how hard this is? Openness isn't favorable conversations and f**k, the truth hurts like a motherf**ker.

Love is appreciation - I find myself holding on to only the good memories I have shared with people. It is so easy to forget the good times as negative emotions can be so overwhelming. I mean, if you can see past a present feeling, it becomes easier to appreciate a person.

Love is humanity - I strongly believe that world peace might be a myth because how can we get the whole world to just love one another?


GENERAL LESSONS


51. Healing has to do with our personal life. Finding the center of self-sovereignty

52. It is one thing to lie to ourselves. It is another thing to believe it

53. We have a right only to our labor, not to the fruits of our labor

54. The levels of revelation that can unfold in any art are inexhaustible

55. Success will come by itself when it wants to

56. The field is level only in heaven

57. There is nothing like a fearless warrior or a dread free artist. Fear is hard t overcome

58. Too much love can be a bad thing

59. Nothing is more empowering as real world validation, even if it is for failure

60. Success, like happiness comes as a product of work

61. The part of us that we imagine needs healing is not the part we create from; that part is deeper and stronger

62. The more psychic energy we expend dredging & re-dredging the tired, boring injustices of our personal lives, the less juice we have to work

63. Principle of priority: know the difference between what is urgent and important. Do what is important first

64. The opposite of love isn't hate, it is indifference

65. Self-doubt is an indicator of aspiration

66. People who are realized in their own lives almost never criticize others. If they speak at all, it is to offer encouragement

67. The humanist is one who believes that we are called upon to co-create the world with God & so values human life highly

68. Fundamentalism is the philosophy of the powerless, the conquered, the displaced and the dispossessed

69. Trouble is a faux form of fame

70. Anything that draws attention to us through a pain free or artificial means is a manifestation of resistance

71. There will never be a moment, when we are without the power to alter our destiny

72. The best and only thing that one artist can do for another is to serve as an example & an inspiration

73. The awakening artist must be ruthless, not only with herself but with others

74. The danger is greatest when the finish line is in sight

75. Resistance by definition is self-sabotage

76. Fear doesn't go away

77. We have two lives - the life we've lived and the unlived life within us

78. The more you force yourself, the less likely you'll succeed

79. Writing isn't hard, sitting down to write is & what keeps us from sitting down is resistance

80. Becoming better & better at what you do, should be what matters the most

81. Strains sometimes are good. It is a sign that you are doing something right

82. The things that can make your life interesting have very little to do with intensive soul-searching

83. A dangerous combination - bored, available and ambitious

84. We live in a society that is trained to watch "what's on" and then discuss what caught our attention the next day

85. Just because you have a good idea for a mission, however, doesn't mean that you'll succeed in its pursuit

86. Lots of different things can, at different times, seem compelling

87. People who feel like their careers truly matter are more satisfied with their working lives, and they are also more resistant to the strain of hard work

88. Do what people are willing to pay for because money is a neutral

89. Just because you are committed to a certain lifestyle doesn't mean you'll find people who are committed to supporting you

90. Control over what you do and how you do it, is one of the most important traits you can acquire when creating work you love. #TheDreamJobElixir

91. You have to get good before you can expect good work

92. Diligence is so important

93. The foundation of constructing work you love is acquiring a large store of career capital - rare & valuable skills

94. It is less about paying attention to your main pursuit and more about your willingness to ignore other pursuits that pop along the way to distract you

95. Sometimes, in honest and harsh feedback, you learn where to retrain your focus in order to continue making progress

96. Another part of deliberate practice is embracing honest feedback, even if it destroys what you thought was good

97. In your own pursuit of "good", if you're not comfortable, then you are probably stuck in an "acceptable level"

98. Deliberate practice is above all, an effort of focus and concentration

99. Passion is an epiphenomenon of a working life well lived

100. Bear in mind that appearance is not reality